The principles outlined above also hold true for children who wake during the night, unwanted habits of the child. The suggestions outlined here should not be considered for babies of less than 6 months, who are not yet into an established sleep pattern, and should be used with caution in those younger than 12 months. Beyond this age group, they are almost always effective in assisting the child to develop better sleep habits.
Waking during the night is not abnormal. What is abnormal is a child who wakes and then demands, indeed has come to expect, attention from his parents in the middle of the night. The problem usually begins because the parents will go to the child soon after he wakes up, rather than let him cry.
There are two ways that parents can deal with children who wake during the night and have learned to expect a feed or cuddle. They can either wean the child from this habit ‘cold turkey’ or else do it by ‘extinction’ over a period of time. Which of these is used depends on the preference of the parents — both are likely to be effective. Parents need to be sure they want to implement the treatment regime, then pick a starting date. Often a relationship with a health professional can be reassuring and supportive during this time.
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