Orgasm, as should be obvious, is not all there is to sexual intercourse, although it seems to be all that many men seek. Sexuality is more than a quick orgasm. It is the mutual touching and pleasuring which enhance each partner’s awareness of the other, it is the multiple physical changes which precede the climactic explosion of spermatic fluid, it is the psychological closeness of mutual enjoyment, and it is the post-orgasmic relaxation of mind and body.
The sequence of events occurs at a different speed and with a different intensity in different men or in the same man in different situations and at different times of his life. The duration of the excitement and plateau phases can vary considerably. From time to time, a man will be aroused, reach the plateau phase, but not reach orgasm. At other times, a man may be able to have orgasms at short intervals. Sometimes a man may find he gets an erection quickly, at other times it takes a long time; occasionally he will not get an erection despite stimulation.
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